Walk the grounds and enjoy yourself.
A short procession and witnessing of our vows.
All the permutations of guest photos. Games and drinks too.
Dinner is served. Menu here.
People extol Diane’s grace and fine taste.
People take bites out of Diane’s cake.
Get down and boogie.
Do I need to RSVP?
Nope! Just show up. Or don’t, that’s fine too.
Are you expecting a gift?
No, thank you. Your presence is our present! But we also have an Amazon Wedding Registry here.
What should I wear?
Gentlemen: a dark suit with an optional tie or bowtie and any kind of button up.
Ladies: anything from over-the-knee sequined dresses to elegant ankle-length gowns.
Is parking available?
Yes! It’s free, and there is plenty of it, complete with handicap access.
How did you two meet?
We worked together in IT support at Google.
Can I have a centerpiece?
Yes! Take the candles, the flowers, board games, extra slices of cake…
Who is in the wedding party?
A combination of close family and friends; complete list
Are children invited to your wedding?
Of course they are! We wouldn’t have it any other way.
How do I get there?
There is no public transit to the mansion, but plenty of free parking (handicap access too): map
What kind of entertainment or festivities will be there?
Board games, lawn games, music, and a dance floor.
Will there be drinks and food?
Yes! We will have appetizers before the ceremony, an open bar, dinner, and a dessert bar. See the full menu here
Where are you going for your honeymoon?
Somewhere secret and romantic.
What can I do to help out with the wedding?
Show up! We would prefer that everyone relax and enjoy themselves. Our paid staff will take care of everything.
Appetizer Menu
Petite BBQ Pork Bun
scallion, sesameSeared Beef Tenderloin
smoked potato, parmesan, sage contains dairy, gluten freeMini Banh Mi
roast pork, pickled vegetablesSix Herb Crepes
Parma ham, roasted artichokes, shaved parmesan contains gluten, dairyCelery Root Chip
fennel, goat cheese, black olive vegetarian. contains dairy
Dinner Menu
Spring Asparagus Salad
poached asparagus with tarragon mustard vinaigrette, marinated beets, radishes and petite greens vegetarian. Contains gluten, dairyTuscan Marinated Chicken Breast
roasted pepper, olives, fresh rosemary gluten freeSeared Beef Tri Tip
rosemary oil, shaved Reggiano contains dairy, gluten freeArtichoke and and Goat Cheese Strudel
balsamic balsamic syrup syrup vegetarian, vegetarian, contains contains gluten, gluten, dairy dairySummer French Beans
shallots, thyme, tomato gluten free, veganArtisan Breads
a seasonal selection Straus dairy cultured organic butter contains gluten, dairy
Dessert Menu
Passion Curd Tart
vegan. contains glutenHuckleberry Breton Cookie
contains gluten, dairyStrawberry Mascarpone Panna Cotta
gluten free. contains gelatinMilk Chocolate Cherry Cheesecake
contains gluten, dairy
Beverage Menu
Coffee / Tea
Ask server for options.White
Greywacke SauvignonBlanc 2016
Sonoma-CutrerRussianRiver Chardonnay 2015
Domaine Carneros BrutRed
Dept C Pinot Noir AndersonValley 2012
Whitehall Lane Tre Leoni Cabernet Blend 2014Beer
Anchor California Lager
Racer 5 IPA
Amstel Light
Best friend from college.
Childhood friend.
2nd cousin and childhood friend.
Unofficial 3rd brother and childhood friend.
College friend from SJSU.
Longtime coworker and prior roommate.
Eldest brother.
Elder brother.
Prior roommate.
Planned Jillian’s wedding!
Photographed Christy and Jason’s wedding!